Archive for May, 2010

Misfortunes make giants. 1

It was 1979, my mother was working in a factory in Chicago. My parents came to this country in pursuit of a better future for their children as so many others in this country do.  Sometimes it may seem there is no plan in our lives and we’re part of this planet by chance. It feels like we are no more nor less then an insect. We merely exist for the sake of existing. But I truly believe  that isn’t the case.

So my mother tells me, at that moment and time she was  9 months pregnant. She was only weeks away from her due date.  My mom tells me that many great women as well as relatives worked at this factory to provide a better life for their children, but on that day, life would take a different turn for everyone.  My mom was working at this factory in order to help out my Dad with the bills and everyday necessities.  It just so happens that on this day, the factory would be raided by immigration. Many of her friends would be  arrested and deported, including other women from other countries she did not even know. My mother shares with me that  she patiently waited in a room to either be arrested, interrogated, or deportation. She admits being a little scared, especially being 9 months pregnant.  At the time my mother was still in process of finalizing her US citizenship, so all this made it so much more nerve recking.   All she knew was that she had to do whatever necessary to survive and provide the promise for her kids and her husband. It’s sad how this affects so many people all over the country today…We’ll leave that topic for another day.

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The officer walked into the room and saw my mother. My mother recalls the woman looking at her,  she was dressed in her law enforcement attire. The woman looked at my mom’s belly, made eye contact with her and told her to leave and go home. My mother didn’t hide, runaway, nor retaliate. She grabbed her things  walked out the front door and went home. I can’t help to think  God must have had a plan for her, our family and  those women that were arrested and deported.  2 weeks later after the raid, I was born.  31 years later I am here, on a journey towards my destiny.  It’s real stories like this that give me so much hope. It’s stories like this that I enjoy sharing. It’s because of heroes like my my Mom and Dad  that had the courage to take a journey towards a better life that I am here. What maybe seemed as a misfortune at the time, has become a stepping stone into greatness.

From time to time I ask my mom the same question. Just to make sure I got it right… I ask my mom, what her job was at the factory back in 1979?  Her job was to  Sew the inside lining of Guitar cases…

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Dad…

Maybe I should’ve waited for Fathers day to write this, but I had him on my mind. I can’t go very long without talking to my Dad.  I am learning more and more that my time with my Dad is super valuable.  I can’t say I had a really close relationship with my Dad growing up.  He worked alot and yeah from time to time we did spend some quality time together. Every Saturday morning as a kid I had the breakfast of champs. My Dad would bring me a cheeseburger from this amazing diner in my old neighborhood called Don’s grill and a fruit punch. It never failed, every single Saturday morning while I watched cartoons.  There was something about that burger! You could eat it anytime of the day and it just made sense to. I am now 31 and I feel like me and Dad have a closer bond. He keeps it real with me but is so freakn encouraging, especially in those crucial moments. He constantly reminds me I am on my way to greatness…Nothing like a father who believes in you…That’s why I do what I do!

My Dad came to this country with a dream.  A dream to make a better life for his family. He worked his butt off to do so.    I am sure he picked up any overtime he could just to keep us in good schools, keep food on the table and keep the lights on. I remember one summer he took me to work landscaping with him, I quit the first week I was there. The work was so freakn tough! It helped me appreciate so much more about him and so many others that do the same.  I know my Dad wasn’t perfect and probably could have done so many things differently, regardless he did what he could and I love and respect him for it. My dad often shares stories with me of missed opportunities and not taking certain risks…out of fear. He says   “fear paralyzes you. Doubting yourself leaves more room to fail and believe into existence you won’t achieve what you are going for”…  My dad’s greatest advice for me was ” Sometimes you just gotta close your eyes and go follow your dreams”. “Speak into reality what is still just a dream, and watch it come to life”.. I love my Dad and I finally had the courage to tell him!..Growing up, showing affection was a sign of weakness. So it wasn’t too popular to tell my Dad I loved him… Somethings in culture just don’t make sense… I am grateful for my Dads  journey and what he has accomplished. He has a remarkable story… I am now a Dad establishing a new foundation and a new culture in my boys. Love God, dream big and Live with wings!

Check out this Link of my Dad sharing a bit on his journey…featured in the Immigrant Archive Project.

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The Future…

Makes you wonder…So much seemed impossible in 1993 and sure enough most came to be.  What seems impossible now that will be possible in 17yrs. What do you think we’ll see?

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